Troubled Students
What To Do In A Crisis: Part
I
Crises You May Encounter
A crisis situation occurs when
the student feels unable to cope with the circumstances of his/her
life. The more helpless the individual feels, the greater the
crisis will be. A psychological emergency occurs when a person
is:
- Suicidal
- Homicidal
- Gravely impaired:
- Confusion
- Extreme hyperactivity
- Hallucinations
- Not in control of his/her behavior
- Disorientation
Procedure
The procedure for crisis intervention
is as follows:
- Contact Security (extension 2400) for
an assessment or assistance. Security will contact a Personal
Counselor or other crisis team member and respond appropriately.
- Until help arrives:
- Listen: Avoid any physical contact
and allow student to talk.
- Assist: Provide a quiet atmosphere
and minimize environmental stimulation.
- Recognize: Know your limitations and
clearly convey this to the student.
- SBCC provides crisis intervention as needed.
Assessment is to be made by a college Personal Counselor during
the following hours: Monday through Thursday 8:00 AM to 6:30
PM and Friday 8:00 AM to 3:00 PM, or by a member of the Security
Office if a Personal Counselor is not available.
- Personal Counseling or Security will contact
the student's family or significant other if it is necessary
to protect the health and safety of the student or other persons.
If the student is under 18 years old, parents MUST be contacted.
(Information may be released based upon the Family Rights and
Privacy Act of 1974 if the knowledge of such information is
necessary to protect the health or safety of the student or
other persons.)
- After the incident has been resolved, the college
Personal Counselor or Security Officer will notify in writing
the member of the crisis team. The Crisis Team consists of:
Personal Counselor, Director of Health and Wellness, Director
of DSPS, Director of Security and Dean of Educational Programs/Student
Discipline.
What To Do In A Crisis: Part II
How To Recognize And Deal With Specific Types
Of Behavior
THE AGGRESSIVE STUDENT
Description
Aggression can take many forms, from very subtle,
passive acts to violent outbursts. Aggression is the result of
being frustrated and feeling out of control. Some aggressive people
express hostility immediately without regard for their circumstances
or the people around them. Other aggressive students express their
hostility through explosive outbursts and the rest of the time
deny their anger and frustration. Many times students who are
verbally or physically aggressive feel inadequate and use the
hostile behavior as a way of building up their self-esteem. Often
they feel that you will reject them so that they become hostile
and reject you first to protect themselves from being hurt. They
may see you as attempting to control them and lash out to try
and gain a sense of control. It is important to remember that
the student is generally not angry at you personally but is angry
at his/her world, and you may be the object of the pent-up frustrations.
Response
The following may be helpful guidelines in
dealing with the aggressive student:
- Reduce stimulation. Invite the person to your
office or another quiet place, if you feel safe doing so.
- Allow the student to ventilate and tell you what
is upsetting him/her.
- Tell the student that you are not willing to
accept abusive behavior. You may want to explicitly state what
behaviors are acceptable.
- Stick to the limits you set.
- Try to prevent total frustration and helplessness
by quickly and calmly acknowledging the intensity of the situation.
Rephrase what they say, keeping your voice volume down.
- Focus on diffusing the situation rather than
seeking resolution right away.
- Call for help when necessary (co-workers, Personal
Counselor, Security).
- Do not be a hero! Open door, call for help, stand
up at the door. Do not jeopardize your own safety.
The following will not be helpful:
- Getting into an argument
- Pressing for explanations for their behavior
- Looking away and not dealing with the situation
or ignoring warning signals
- Touching the student
- Making threats, dares or taunts
If the student appears to be threatening or dangerous:
- Call Security, ext. 2264 days (after 4:00 PM,
ext. 2400)
If the student's behavior is disruptive, but there
is no imminent danger:
- Call Dean of Students, ext. 2278 (Call Operator
for phone number for Evening Dean).
THE DEPRESSED STUDENT
Description
Typically, a depressed student may feel guilty or
angry at him/herself; has trouble concentrating or remembering,
loses interest in schoolwork or other activities, and/or feels
worthless or inadequate. Physical symptoms include: changes in
appetite (increase or decrease), sleep disturbances (or excessive
sleeping), low energy level. The more depressed student will convey
a greater sense of helplessness and hopelessness. Often these
feelings are expressed verbally or in writing.
Suicide
Many depressed students feel
suicidal. It is important to take all suicidal comments seriously
and appropriate referrals should be made.
Suicidal Indicators:
- Talking of ending things (e.g., quitting school,
work)
- Giving things away
- Taking care of business
- Statements of hopelessness
- A lift in depression, surge of energy
Facts about suicides:
- College students have higher suicide rates than
non-college people of the same age.
- More men commit suicide, but more women attempt.
- There are more attempts at the beginning and
end of semesters.
- People committing suicide rarely want to die.
They really want to end the pain they experience.
- Talking about suicide will not plant the idea
in a person's mind but will probably relieve some of the tension
they experience.
- Suicides rarely occur without warning.
- Feeling isolated (no support group) increases
the likelihood for suicide.
- The more developed the suicide plan, the greater
the likelihood for suicide.
- If the student has made attempts in the
past, he/she is at higher risk for future (and possibly more
serious) attempts.
Response
If you encounter a depressed student, the following
actions may be helpful:
- Reach out and encourage the student to express
his/her feelings.
- Tell the student of your concerns.
- Talk about suicide if that's on the student's
mind.
- Encourage utilizing or developing a support network
(e.g., groups on campus, family, friends, religious affiliations,
12-step programs).
- Make appropriate referrals.
The following actions may not be helpful:
- Saying "don't worry," "crying
won't help," or "everything will be better tomorrow"
may only make the student feel worse.
- Becoming overwhelmed by students' problems may
only provide them with more evidence that they should feel helpless.
- Trying to take responsibility for them and solve
their problems will again provide evidence that they are helpless.
- Trying to ignore their feelings
- Continuing to see the student without referral
develops dependency and may impede resolution via trained personnel.
If you are concerned about a
student's suicidal intent, call one or more of the following for
help immediately:
- Personal Counselor, Student Health Services and
Wellness Program, ext. 2298 for assessment and referral
- 911 (Medical Assistance Team) for psychiatric
evaluation
- 3. A family member, roommate or friend of the
student
THE STUDENT IN POOR CONTACT WITH REALITY
Description
This student may appear withdrawn,
frightened, unaware or unconcerned with classroom protocol or
acceptable social behavior, disruptive, confused or illogical.
Written or verbal communication may be disjointed with little
or no connection between topics. Their speech may be rapid or
slowed down. They may also pay a great deal of attention to some
unimportant detail that is being discussed or may be generally
scattered and incoherent. The student may make inappropriate emotional
responses. He/she may overreact to his/her feelings with excessive
anger, sadness or exuberance. Others may demonstrate a complete
lack of emotional expression and speak in monotone.
These students tend to distort their perceptions
of the world in such a way that innocent occurrences have special
meaning to them (e.g., interpreting an innocent facial expression
or tone of voice as being hostile or persecutory). They may experience
themselves as especially powerful or important or may believe
that people are trying to control or harm them in some way. The
student may experience hallucinations, most commonly voices speaking
to them. They may appear to be on drugs; however, that assumption
should not be made.
Response
When interacting with someone who is in this disturbed
state, the following may be helpful:
- Respond to them with warmth and kindness but
with firmness.
- If you are comfortable in doing so, see them
in a quiet atmosphere to remove extra stimulation from the environment
(rather than dealing with them in front of the class).
- Acknowledge their position or feelings without
supporting the misperceptions (e.g., I understand you think
they are trying to hurt you and I know how real it seems to
you, but I didn't perceive them trying to humiliate you.).
- Reveal when you have difficulty in understanding
them and ask that they repeat or rephrase their communication.
- Focus on the "here and now" (e.g.,
"you seem very tense, short of breath").
- Acknowledge your concerns and state that
you can see they need help. Referral is very important for these
students.
The following will not be
helpful to this student:
- Arguing or trying to convince
them of the irrationality of their thinking, as it may just
make them defend their position (false perceptions) more
- Playing along with their beliefs
to not upset them (e.g., maybe you are a prophet)
- Encouraging further revelations
of craziness. It is more helpful to switch topics and divert
focus to reality issues.
- Demand that they change their ideas or behavior.
Limits on their behavior may need to be imposed but this is
best done in consultation with others.
Call Student Health Services/Personal Counselors,
ext. 2298 for assessment, counseling and/or referrals (See Part
III for help in making referrals.)
THE ANXIOUS STUDENT
Description
We have all experienced anxiety in response to a
perceived stressful situation. Anxiety becomes heightened as the
situation becomes more vague and less familiar.
A panic attack is an overwhelming sense of
dread and fear and is the extreme result of feeling anxious. Some
of the physiological and psychological components of general anxiety
and a panic attack are:
- rapid heart palpitation
- sweating
- fear
- memory distortions
- dizziness
- worry
- easily distracted
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- choking
- cold, clammy hands
- difficulty concentrating
- chest pain or discomfort
- trembling or shaking
- anticipating misfortune
- trouble sleeping
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The student may experience feelings of worry, fear,
and anticipate some misfortune. He/she may complain of difficulty
concentrating, being always on edge, being easily distracted,
memory distortions, or trouble sleeping. The student may also
state unreasonably high self-expectations and be very critical
of his/her present performance. This student may constantly think
about and discuss his/her problems and possible solutions but
be too fearful to take action.
Response
The following may be helpful
in dealing with an anxious student:
- Let them discuss their
feelings and thoughts. This alone may relieve a great deal of
pressure.
- Help them define their
stressors (which may be difficult to do) and their ineffective
and effective coping strategies.
- Be clear and explicit
about what you are willing to do. It may be helpful to have
the student repeat what you have said to ensure that he/she
understands.
- Talk slowly and remain
calm.
- Encourage them to use
a support system (e.g., family, friends, students, religious
affiliation) to ventilate.
- When anxiety becomes counter-productive
(e.g., cannot take exam, go to class, etc.), refer student to
a Personal Counselor.
The following will not be helpful in
dealing with an anxious student:
- Taking responsibility for their emotional
state
- Trying to solve their problem as if it
were your own
- Becoming anxious or overwhelmed
THE MANIPULATIVE STUDENT
Description
Typically, the utmost time and energy given to this
student is simply not enough. He/she often seeks to control your
time and unconsciously believes that the amount of time received
is a reflection of personal worth. In many instances, these people
feel incompetent to handle their own life. Usually, they are immature
and self-centered.
Response
When interacting with a manipulative
student, the following actions may be helpful:
- Set clear and precise limits
with them and stick to the limits no matter how much the student
protests.
- Let the student, to the extent
possible, make his/her own decisions. Don't take responsibility
for them. If you do, they may attempt to trap you into solving
more and more of their life problems.
- Set limits to your contact with the student (e.g.,
"I am able to spend 10 minutes with you now. My regular
office hours are...").
However:
- Do not let them use you as their only source
of support. Refer them to other students in class, their friends
or some particular group on campus.
THE PARANOID STUDENT
Description
Usually, these students complain about something
other than their psychological difficulties. They are tense, cautious,
mistrustful and have few friends. These students tend to interpret
minor oversights as significant personal rejection. Often, many
overreact to insignificant occurrences. They see themselves as
the focal point of everyone's behavior and everything that happens
has special meaning. Usually, they are overly concerned with fairness
and being treated equally. They project blame onto others and
will express anger in roundabout ways. Many times they feel worthless
and inadequate.
Response
When interacting with a paranoid student, the following
may be helpful:
- Send clear, consistent messages regarding what
you are willing to do and what you expect.
- Express compassion without intimate friendship.
Remember, paranoid students have trouble with closeness and
warmth. It would not be helpful to be overly warm or nurturing
or to assure the student you are his/her friend. Let him/her
know that you can still be concerned without being intimate.
However:
- Do not try to flatter the student or be cute
or humorous to try to relieve your own anxiety. This will probably
distance the student from you.
- Do not reinforce their beliefs or try to argue
against them. Instead, you may rephrase with, "your perception
of this situation is..." without judgment.
THE STUDENT UNDER THE INFLUENCE
Alcohol is the most widely used psychoactive drug.
It is common to find alcohol abusers in college populations also
abusing other drugs, both prescription and illicit. Fads and peer
pressure affect patterns of use. Currently, alcohol is the preferred
drug on college campuses. The effects of alcohol on the user are
well known to most of us. Student alcohol abuse is most often
identified by faculty when irresponsible, unpredictable behavior
affects the learning situation (i.e., drunk and disorderly in
class), or when a combination of health and social impairments
associated with alcohol abuse sabotages student performance. Because
of the denial that exists in most substance abusers, it is important
to express your concern about the student not in terms of suspicions
about alcohol and other drugs but in terms of specific changes
in behavior or performance.
Do:
- Confront the student with their behavior
that is of concern.
- Address the substance abuse issue if the
student is open and willing.
- Offer support and concern for the student's
overall well-being.
- Maintain contact with the student after
a referral is made.
Don't:
- Convey judgment or criticism about the
student's substance abuse
- Make allowances for the student's irresponsible
behavior
- Ignore signs of intoxication in the classroom
What To Do In A Crisis: Part II
When And Where To Make Referrals
Refer a student when:
The problem or request for information is beyond
your level of competency.
- You fear for the safety of a student or others.
- You feel like you cannot work with a student
for whatever reason (e.g., you feel overwhelmed, you have reached
your limit of energy or patience, or you feel manipulated or
frightened).
Referral to SBCC Personal
Counselors
Referring a student for counseling may be threatening for various
reasons. Education and general information about our services
can make the difference in a successful referral. It is helpful
to remember that you are doing what you think best for the student
and that knowing your limits is important and commendable rather
than something negative.
When you do discuss a referral to a Personal Counselor,
it would be helpful for the student to hear in a clear, concise
manner your concerns and why you think counseling would be of
benefit.
You might also tell them a few facts about Student
Health Services.
- All services are free to enrolled students.
- Licensed Marriage, Family, and Child therapists
and interns are available Monday through Thursday from 8:00
AM to 6:30 PM and Friday from 8:00 AM to 3:00 PM.
- Counseling sessions are generally 45 minutes
once a week for up to six weeks.
- If long-term therapy is indicated, a community
referral is made.
- All information is held confidential. No information
will be released without the student's consent except when the
student presents a danger to him/herself or others.
Having the student call for an appointment increases
his/her responsibility and commitment to come in for counseling.
There may be sometime, however, when it is more advantageous for
you to call and make an appointment with him/her (e.g., student
in crisis).
If you want to discuss ways of dealing with
students needing assistance, call the Personal Counseling staff
for a phone consultation. Some common presenting problems that
our counselors work with are:
- Stress/Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Depression
- Eating disorders
- Anger
- Test anxiety
- Substance abuse
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